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Post by eCat » Tue Jan 16, 2018 10:53 am

crashcourse wrote:so basically the elderly I guess?

wonder who defines "access'

if you cant go to the supermarket you cant go anywhere I would assume--probably time to go live in assisted living.,
I think their concern was the number of inner city people who live in areas where a supermarket chain won't build - either due to crime or lack of sales, so they end up spending an inordinate amount of their food income on boxed and processed foods you buy at smaller convenience stores. In urban areas that is called a food desert. Its a legitimate concern in Cincinnati. Or I should say it was.

As you might imagine, a midwestern city took a different approach rather than looking to the government to handle its problems with a tax plan and built a co-op where the community bought shares and receives a profit back. The Co-op not only focuses on providing fresh produce and vegetables but locally sources when possible. While its future isn't certain its become a point of pride in the community and a friendly gathering place in a area that greatly needs one.
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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Post by eCat » Tue Jan 16, 2018 11:09 am

different topic - an article on a woman accusing Aziz Ansari of being in the same company as Weinstein. The author, a woman, takes exception to it and points out some eyebrow raising stats from millenials in the age of #metoo. Its behind a pay wall so I included the whole thing here. its a bit long but I think worth the read.

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I’m apparently the victim of sexual assault. And if you’re a sexually active woman in the 21st century, chances are that you are, too.

That is what I learned from the “exposé” of Aziz Ansari published this weekend by the feminist website Babe — arguably the worst thing that has happened to the #MeToo movement since it began in October. It transforms what ought to be a movement for women’s empowerment into an emblem for female helplessness.

The headline primes the reader to gird for the very worst: “I went on a date with Aziz Ansari. It turned into the worst night of my life.” Like everyone else, I clicked.

The victim in this 3,000-word story is called “Grace” — not her real name — and her saga with Mr. Ansari began at a 2017 Emmys after-party. As recounted by Grace to the reporter Katie Way, she approached him, but he brushed her off at first. Then they bonded over their devotion to the same vintage camera.

Grace was at the party with someone else, but she and Mr. Ansari exchanged numbers and soon arranged a date in Manhattan.
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After arriving at his TriBeCa apartment on the appointed evening — she was “excited,” having carefully chosen her outfit after consulting with friends — they exchanged small talk and drank wine. “It was white,” she said. “I didn’t get to choose and I prefer red, but it was white wine.” Yes, we are apparently meant to read into the nonconsensual wine choice.

They went out to dinner nearby and then returned home to Mr. Ansari’s apartment. As Grace tells it, the actor was far too eager to get back to his place after he paid for dinner: “Like, he got the check and then it was bada-boom, bada-bing, we’re out of there.” Another sign of his apparent boorishness.

Grace complimented Mr. Ansari’s kitchen countertops. The actor then made a move, asking her to sit on the counter. They started kissing. He undressed her and then himself.

In the 30 or so minutes that followed — recounted beat by cringe-inducing beat — they hooked up. Mr. Ansari persistently tried to have penetrative sex with her, and Grace says she was deeply uncomfortable throughout. At various points, she told the reporter, she attempted to voice her hesitation, and that Mr. Ansari ignored her signals.

At last, she uttered the word “no” for the first time during their encounter, to Mr. Ansari’s suggestion that they have sex in front of a mirror. He said: “‘How about we just chill, but this time with our clothes on?’”

They got dressed, sat on the couch and watched “Seinfeld.” She said to him: “You guys are all the same.” He called her an Uber. She cried on the way home. Fin.

If you are wondering what about this evening constituted the “worst night” of Grace’s life, or why it is being framed as a #MeToo story by a feminist website, you probably feel as confused as Mr. Ansari did the next day. “It was fun meeting you last night,” he texted.

“Last night might’ve been fun for you, but it wasn’t for me,” she responded. “You ignored clear nonverbal cues; you kept going with advances. You had to have noticed I was uncomfortable.” He replied with an apology.

Read Grace’s text message again.

Put in other words: I am angry that you weren’t able to read my mind.

It is worth carefully studying Grace’s story. Encoded in it are new yet deeply retrograde ideas about what constitutes consent — and what constitutes sexual violence.

We are told by the reporter that Grace “says she used verbal and nonverbal cues to indicate how uncomfortable and distressed she was.” She adds that “whether Ansari didn’t notice Grace’s reticence or knowingly ignored it is impossible for her to say.” We are told that “he wouldn’t let her move away from him,” in the encounter.

Yet Mr. Ansari, in a statement responding to Grace’s story, said that “by all indications” the encounter was “completely consensual.”

I am a proud feminist, and this is what I thought while reading Grace’s story:

If you are hanging out naked with a man, it’s safe to assume he is going to try to have sex with you.

If the inability to choose a pinot noir over a pinot grigio offends you, you can leave right then and there.

If you don’t like the way your date hustles through paying the check, you can say, “I’ve had a lovely evening and I’m going home now.”

If you go home with him and discover he’s a terrible kisser, say “I’m out.”

If you start to hook up and don’t like the way he smells or the way he talks (or doesn’t talk), end it.

If he pressures you to do something you don’t want to do, use a four-letter word, stand up on your two legs and walk out his door.

Aziz Ansari sounds like he was aggressive and selfish and obnoxious that night. Isn’t it heartbreaking and depressing that men — especially ones who present themselves publicly as feminists — so often act this way in private? Shouldn’t we try to change our broken sexual culture? And isn’t it enraging that women are socialized to be docile and accommodating and to put men’s desires before their own? Yes. Yes. Yes.

But the solution to these problems does not begin with women torching men for failing to understand their “nonverbal cues.” It is for women to be more verbal. It’s to say: “This is what turns me on.” It’s to say “I don’t want to do that.” And, yes, sometimes it means saying piss off.

The single most distressing thing to me about Grace’s story is that the only person with any agency in the story seems to be Aziz Ansari. Grace is merely acted upon.

All of this put me in mind of another piece published this weekend, this one by the novelist and feminist icon Margaret Atwood. “My fundamental position is that women are human beings,” she writes. “Nor do I believe that women are children, incapable of agency or of making moral decisions. If they were, we’re back to the 19th century, and women should not own property, have credit cards, have access to higher education, control their own reproduction or vote. There are powerful groups in North America pushing this agenda, but they are not usually considered feminists.”

Except, increasingly, they are.

Grace’s story was met with so many digital hosannas by young feminists, who insisted that consent is only consent if it is affirmative, active, continuous and — and this is the word most used — enthusiastic. Consent isn’t the only thing they are radically redefining. A recent survey by The Economist/YouGov found that approximately 25 percent of millennial-age American women think asking someone for a drink is harassment. More than a third say that if a man compliments a woman’s looks it is harassment.

To judge from social media reaction to Grace’s story, they also see a flagrant abuse of power in this sexual encounter. Yes, Mr. Ansari is a wealthy celebrity with a Netflix show. But he had no actual power over Grace — professionally or otherwise. And lumping him in with the same movement that brought down men who ran movie studios and forced themselves on actresses, or the factory floor supervisors who demanded sex from women workers, trivializes what #MeToo first stood for.

I’m sorry Grace had this experience. I too have had lousy romantic encounters, as has every adult woman I know. I have regretted these encounters, and not said anything at all. And I have regretted them and said so, like Grace did. And I know I am lucky that these unpleasant moments were far from being anything approaching assault or rape, or even the worst night of my life.

But the response to Grace’s story makes me think that many of my fellow feminists might insist that my experience was just that, and for me to define it otherwise is nothing more than my internalized misogyny.

There is a useful term for what Grace experienced on her night with Mr. Ansari. It’s called “bad sex.” It sucks.

The feminist answer is to push for a culture in which boys and young men are taught that sex does not have to be pursued like they’re in a porn film, and one in which girls and young women are empowered to be bolder, braver and louder about what they want. The insidious attempt by some women to criminalize awkward, gross and entitled sex takes women back to the days of smelling salts and fainting couches. That’s somewhere I, for one, don’t want to go.
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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Post by aTm » Tue Jan 16, 2018 11:43 am

I'm going to guess that a Starbucks frap doesnt get this sugar tax?
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Post by Cletus » Tue Jan 16, 2018 11:51 am

eCat wrote:
Cletus wrote:What costs more, this tax or daily insulin treatments?
I figured that would be your response.

good god, what has happened to you
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Post by eCat » Tue Jan 16, 2018 11:51 am

Non-milk based drinks, which are common in Starbucks and other coffee vendors, will also be taxed. This includes Starbuck's Iced Teas and other non-milk based products.
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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Post by aTm » Tue Jan 16, 2018 12:07 pm

So no, Starbucks is good except for like the 5 people that get the premade sweetened tea.
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Post by bluetick » Tue Jan 16, 2018 12:15 pm

She's buck naked on the kitchen counter - willingly - 2 hours into their first date. And later he changed course when she said 'no'. Her own descriptions nullifies her case. Nothing there is even a traffic ticket in the scheme of sexual harassment indictments...more like getting cut off in traffic.

The major difference between her and, say, Al Franken's accusers: she could see what was coming from a mile away.
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Post by eCat » Tue Jan 16, 2018 12:26 pm

more concerning to me is not her take but the overall change in tone on this and how her, and apparently a significant percentage - especially millenials - see Aziz as doing something wrong.
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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Post by eCat » Tue Jan 16, 2018 12:27 pm

aTm wrote:So no, Starbucks is good except for like the 5 people that get the premade sweetened tea.
the whole milk thing must have been put in there just for them.
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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Post by aTm » Tue Jan 16, 2018 12:39 pm

eCat wrote:more concerning to me is not her take but the overall change in tone on this and how her, and apparently a significant percentage - especially millenials - see Aziz as doing something wrong.
I'm sure he's kind of a dick and is doing "something wrong" in that context, but yeah people are starting to act like nothing uncomfortable should ever happen to them and not being able to deal with that.
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Post by bluetick » Tue Jan 16, 2018 12:42 pm

eCat wrote:more concerning to me is not her take but the overall change in tone on this and how her, and apparently a significant percentage - especially millenials - see Aziz as doing something wrong.
Idk. I see pushback from the #metoo people actually, saying she hurts the cause.

And that article was a NYTimes piece. https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/15/opin ... sment.html
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Post by eCat » Tue Jan 16, 2018 12:59 pm

we live in an age where promiscuity is celebrated in apps like Tinder and Grinder , where texting is the preferred form of communication removing tone and context from conversations. Teenagers views on sexuality , and more specifically, appropriate sexual interactions are shaped by pornhub.com, while bathroom selfies are not only norm, they are broadcast to potentially millions. Its the teenager business card - and that business card says I'm DTF.

plus, unless I've totally missed the boat, while its perfectly acceptable for a woman to make the first move, its still expected socially for the male to initiate contact.

if the 40 year old women in the workplace thinks its bad now, 20 years from now the social norms they are hoping to redefine will be thrown out the window.

The #metoo movement is about using power as leverage over women. We should be celebrating the women that said no in the first place, not the women that said yes and were remorseful the next morning. They - the ones that said no and lived with the consequences - are the one setting examples for the next generation.
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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Post by aTm » Tue Jan 16, 2018 1:05 pm

The implication that pretty much every woman has had something happen to them has been cooked into the #MeToo "brand" from the very beginning. It was always going to end up casting a very wide net, landing a very large number of potentially dubious catches.
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Post by hedge » Tue Jan 16, 2018 1:55 pm

"“The hope is consumption of the unhealthy product -- which causes heart disease, diabetes -- will go down, the sugary drinks to go down, and we fully expect that to be the case,” Krieger said."

But you're OK with heroin being illegal...
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hedge wrote:"“The hope is consumption of the unhealthy product -- which causes heart disease, diabetes -- will go down, the sugary drinks to go down, and we fully expect that to be the case,” Krieger said."

But you're OK with heroin being illegal...
my response to you saying this every time is going to be the same.

ain't not diabetic ever broke into my car and stole my shit
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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Has a heroin addict?
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Post by hedge » Tue Jan 16, 2018 2:26 pm

Plus, one of the main benefits of legalized heroin is that costs would go down to the point that the user wouldn't need to rob to afford his habit...
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hedge wrote:Has a heroin addict?

I thought that has been obvious in my postings of the past
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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hedge wrote:Plus, one of the main benefits of legalized heroin is that costs would go down to the point that the user wouldn't need to rob to afford his habit...

when he loses his job he will
I like the stinky pinky but only up to the first knuckle, I do not want a GD thumb up there--I've told her multiple times and I always catch her when she tries to pull a fast one---it's my butthole for Chrissakes I'm gonna know--so cut out the BS.

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Post by Professor Tiger » Tue Jan 16, 2018 3:29 pm

Seattle is a bastion of sanity compared to San Francisco. They have so many people pooping in the streets that they have created a map to help everyone else avoid it.

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